I'm new to this world, but i have a craving and vanilla sex is doing it for me anymore, I'm looking for a Dom who is a little older (No one above 30 I will not be comfortable with older than 30) and is very fit, someone who I can talk to and get my release someone who will guide me through this new world. I'm not looking for a casual fuck, and I do not want to be used. I read many romance novels all with D/s relationships and I know that they are fictional but that is what I have in my mind. I know that I need to learn a lot but be patient with me, i have a strong need to please whomever I'm with. I'm an ex gymnast slowly but surely getting back to my old toned body, I'm not fat just have soft curves. I was just in a bad relationship with an over weight guy i WILL NOT be with another over weight guy, I want a ripped body that I can worship and chemistry that can get me wet with one look, but also a connection to me as a person