“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
― Marilyn Monroe
She stood before him just as she was made to be, no lies, no judgement, no fake smile. She showed him the storm that raged within her, the strength of her heart, the stubbornness of her will and the soul that burned like fire and he.....
He took all she had to offer...saw the beauty amongst the choas... stared every flaw, every doubt and every fear in the face. He saw her spirit and ran free with it....he showed her the fire that ran wild within his own soul and together....despite the storms of life....together they set each other ablazed and danced in the flames.
- Mary Huber

The wolf is a wild, untameable spirit; I will kneel and mind those I chose, when I chose to, or make others do so.

Owned, and married. I am a lifestyler, been into it 15+ years, online and in real. Almost 10 years extensive study in Gor as well as other aspects of BDSM. This lifestyle is not an easy path. Daily even us "old farts" learn something about themselves. There are many challenges, emotions, trials as one evolves into their role. The one "truth" I know for sure of is, you are what you are, no matter how hard you try to change it, it may lie dormant for awhile, but at the end of the day, it's still there. The only peace you'll find is to let it go and grow. Being a Dominant or sub/slave is ingrained in our souls. It's who we are, and if you want to find the real you, you have to accept and embrace it. No matter where it may lead you....
"The truest submission lies within giving oneself completely not out of fear, lust or need, but out of deep love and trust."

The ideal D/s relationship is when you feel you found the other half of your soul. You compliment each other, ying yang, one needs the other to feel fulfilled, passions are mutual, there are no wrongs or secrets. It is a dance of love, passion, desires and needs; each has their purpose...when melded two souls become one. And yes, Dominants have their own "space" as much as a sub does. If it's the right bond, both share that time together.

"You can't know and understand another until you know and understand yourself first." This is a statement most true in D/s. Words of wisdom, be sure to know who and what you are before seeking to control or give self to another.

The wolf loves deeply, cares intensely for her friends, and is fiercely loyal and protective. Warning: "Fuck with me all you want, I'll laugh, smart off and ignore you. But fuck with MINE, YOU ARE GAME TO BE HUNTED." Saying that I'm me, either you accept it, love me ...or fuck off, bluntly put as I don't beat around the bush. Life is too damn short to worry over idiots or things we can't change. I am happy where I am, maybe you should be or take a fresh look in to your life. Either way,
So be it... ;)