I am looking to expand my life experiences. I am just an average guy, i am really laid back and easy going, I have never been too adventurous so coming here is a huge step outside my comfort zone, I have always been shy and reserved. I guess I am just trying to expand my horizons and meet new people and try new things. I am not rich and never going to be and I am not a beefy model like studmuffin- just an average joe with extra poundage (sorry ladies)I am 42 so I am not a dashing young man either (again sorry ladies). Figured it was time to make a few changes in my life and here I am, jumping in headfirst to see what happens. Not sure what all I am looking for but am open minded and willing to try new things. I do have an interest in the BDSM lifestyle but am a complete novice and searching for guidance. I am not interested in being a slave to someone but want to test the waters and do some experimenting to see if it is something of interest to me.