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Looking for that special male or female sub/slave

Previous bedroom submissive seeks to explore her dominant side. I am bisexual so male or female sub/slave okay.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildCurvy
Height160 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Facial HairNone
Best featureChest
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
Bra size38 / 85
Cup sizeD
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusLiving together
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyLegal
Employment StatusPart-time
Job TitleParalegal

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchSomeone looking for the same thing I am. I am eventually looking for something long term as I am currently amicably leaving a 25 year relationship. I would eventually like to have a permanent threesome relationship with both a male and a female sub/slave under me. Would like to start with a male sub/slave first and if he fits everything I'm looking for then it will be just us, if he is the one but isn't comfortable and a third then I won't do it but the thought is there as I find women attractive too.
Our first dateIt will depend on the person but definitely a situation where we can get to know each other to see if we are going to be compatible.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDomme
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Hair pulling, Sensory deprivation, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosNo

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Strip clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Adult book stores, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Scat, golden showers, blood play, knives, piercing, ation.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being Told to Assume the Position, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Hairbrush, Wooden Spoon
Response:Laughing, Joking, Pleasurable Moans
Pain level:Stinging

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Lingerie and stockings