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I am a 32 year old writer in maryland who is looking for local ladies to play with! As well as doing vanilla stuff with too!
My motto:Honesty is the best Policy.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height5' 9" (175 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Health ConditionDepression
Bra size46+ / 105+
Cup sizeD
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityMy Place
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job TitleJanitor Part time

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Money, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Passiveness
My perfect matchSomeone who I can talk to as a person beyond just BDSM stuff. Who is intelligent and kind and that I can fully feel comfortable with as a person.
Our first dateA coffee date or maybe a movie. Just hanging out for a bit.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byDomination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingFriendship
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Femdom, Foot / shoe worship, Hair pulling, Kidnapping, Power exchange, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:I don't really care for sex
Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle
Dirty talkI've never tried it
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Adult book stores, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Sex toys:Clitoral stimulator
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":No tolit play (piss and scat) vomit, breathplay, heavy blood

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI want someone to give themselves to me compleatly. Not no limts but just the giving of their heart and soul and mind and body to me. Even just for a night.
Fantasy locationHotel/motel
Fantasy sex partner:Someone willing to give all of themselves to me. someone open and intelligent that I can be myself with and feel safe with and hopefully she'll feel safe with me.

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Hairbrush
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Total 24/7 control
Desired Persona:Strict teacher / Authoritarian
I like to wear:Casual straight wear
Ideal session:I want a slave that will come and offer themselvs to me. willingly and without needing to be "forced"
Ultimate femdom fantasy:someone ends up on my doorstep after sseeing me at a munch or some other place where kinksters gather and offers their services as a slave.