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Educated and successful, I enjoy the absolute extremes of kink - physical and emotional. I travel with work a lot, mainly spending half my time in the UK, half in the US.

I can actually Dom and have a lot of experience doing it from about 15 years in the BDSM scene, but after a very intense and borderline abusive relationship, I am changed and there is a big part of me that wants to experience that feeling of being abused again (feel free to ask me about the relationship, but it was too long to detail out here). I really hope for someone to see through me and can hit my weak spots and insecurities. Just like everyone I have secrets and insecurities which I am not quick to share, but which break me if they're chipped away at.

I work in a high powered job and come across as confident to most, but there is that side that craves to be beaten down. I want to make people smile at my humiliation, revel in my self loathing, exploit me for their benefit and ultimately have absolutely no respect for me as a person.

I'm interested in the most extreme emotional dynamics that kink has to offer.

To begin with, I'd like to talk to someone online and build up a dynamic, but very willing to progress from there. And I understand how things work from both perspectives - sub women suffer, sub men give.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
Height5' 11" (180 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureButt
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Short
Endowment (width)Thin
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyManufacturing / Distribution
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Annual income$250,000 - $500,000
Job TitleCEO

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Oddities
My perfect matchSomeone interested in exploring the darkest areas of emotional and psychological BDSM.
Our first dateInsults. Humiliation. Degradation. Hatred.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mistress
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyCollar & lead / leash
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI am somewhat recently out of what many would perceive as an abusive relationship. However I was there con-sensually and now that it is over I miss it and crave more.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a month
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Strap-ons
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Scat. Anything illegal.